{"id":426,"date":"2019-09-09T11:38:52","date_gmt":"2019-09-09T09:38:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learntobezen.eu\/en\/?page_id=426"},"modified":"2019-09-09T11:39:01","modified_gmt":"2019-09-09T09:39:01","slug":"how-do-i-help-my-friend-manage-their-fear","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/learntobezen.eu\/en\/how-do-i-help-my-friend-manage-their-fear\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I help my friend manage their fear? _ DUP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_fullwidth_header title=&#8221;How do I help my friend manage their fear?&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; header_scroll_down=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.17.6&#8243; background_color=&#8221;rgba(255, 255, 255, 0)&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/learntobezen.eu\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/03\/fw-bg-001.jpg&#8221; button_one_text_size__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_text_size__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_text_size__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_text_size__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_one_text_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_text_color__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_text_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_text_color__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_one_border_width__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_border_width__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_border_width__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_border_width__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_one_border_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_border_color__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_border_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_border_color__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_one_border_radius__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_border_radius__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_border_radius__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_border_radius__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_letter_spacing__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_one_bg_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_bg_color__hover=&#8221;null&#8221; button_two_bg_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_bg_color__hover=&#8221;null&#8221;]<div class='one_half'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>Welcoming a child\u2019s emotion allows you to defuse a scary situation at his or her own pace.  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